The best advice I can give any new parent is to do what you feel is right. No one can tell you the "right" way to raise your child, only you and your spouse can make that decision. Sure advice from everyone is always welcomed and sometimes needed but you can't get bogged down by everyone else's right and wrong. Remember to follow your heart, babies do not come with instruction manuals. You must have faith in your abilities to raise your child and remember you will make mistakes and you will mess up but none of that will stop you from loving your child more than anyone else in the entire world. Love is enough.
Jameia & Stanley; I have not known you two for years, but I can tell that love grows inside you both everyday. Your son is extremely lucky to have two parents who are whole heartily in love with him and will dedicate their lives for him. Go thru life loving each other but most of all love your family as it grows and changes. Best of luck to you both as you welcome your new bundle of joy into this world, your son is extremely lucky to have you two as parents.